IDEA: extrovert train carriages. Like those ‘chat to me’ benches, but a whole carriage of the train dedicated to people who wanna talk rather than just read a book or listen to music (through headphones, of course) and enjoy the scenery. Introverts can drop their extrovert mates off in those carriages so they have people to chat to, and extroverts will leave us alone to enjoy our quiet time.
Extroverts do this ‘I’ll keep you company!’ thing at really distressing times imho. Like, just as I’ve managed to extricate myself from the group and I’m getting ready to go out for a walk, someone will go ‘I’ll come with you!’. Oh noooo I’m only walking to get AWAY from people! Or I say I’m nipping to the shops or out for a vape ‘I’ll keep you company!’ - I don’t WANT company that’s why I’ve found an excuse to go away!
When I was working I’d get excited about lunch breaks on a nice day: plan which bench I’d head for in the park, look forward to the specific Tesco Meal Deal sandwich I’d eat on it and the book I’d read while there. Then half the time some random colleague would pop up at last minute to ‘keep me company’, and I’d miss out on my plan. Instead I had to TALK to a COLLEAGUE for the WHOLE OF LUNCH. And that’s basically work. Extroverts stole my lunch breaks.
@girlonthenet and to make matters worse, THEY TALK TO YOU WHEN YOU HAVE HEADPHONES ON
@axel @girlonthenet can't you just keep the headphones in?
@econads @girlonthenet You can, yes.
But then you're the asshole for refusing to engage and people get really high school about it.
@axel @girlonthenet
Sometimes people need a bit of rude.
@econads @girlonthenet agreed, but I'm just really bad at doing rude ​
@axel @girlonthenet
Aww. Life is hard at times. :-(
Learning to stand up for yourself takes time, but it's often not as bad as you think it's going to be..
Of course I don't know your situation so sorry if I'm coming across patronising.
@econads @girlonthenet No no, it's all good, no worries ​
@axel @girlonthenet
Are you just saying that because you don't want to be rude?
Kidding x