Hey lovely folks of fedi who are anywhere on the asexual spectrum 

A friend of ours¹ thinks they might be asexual, but they're doing the doubting questioning thing  (i.e., the thing we mostly all do with sexuality, gender, romanticity, neurodivergence etc.)

Please may we call upon your collective knowledge and experiences to share what asexuality means for you and help us bust some myths for others who might be questioning too?  

Thank you kindly in advance  

Boosts appreciated  

#asexual #demisexual #greysexual #graysexual #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #AskFedi

¹ Yes: we genuinely are asking for a friend! We are very much allosexual ourselves 😅😳

Edit: Changed the link, per a recommendation for a better wiki page 🥰

Edit 2: Thank you to all your varied answers so far! Please keep them coming! Hopefully this will help our friend and others who are questioning. But anyone wondering about us, your experiences very much confirm how allosexual we are 😅😳

Asexual

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@SleepyCatten I think a-spectrum experiences are so unique that they cannot be explained by few people, in my case as aro/ace i just don't feel sexual or romantic inclination and all the times i dated someone it was forced, hilariously similar to a gay dude dating a straight woman or lesbian dating a straight guy, it's like compulsory sexuality really is a thing that queer people struggle a lot... trying to perform these really damaged my psyche tbh... that's why i know i am unable to do such things... however it's a spectrum so there will be people who can! like demisexuality or demiaromanticism that you need some sort of huge emotional development before attraction! aroace experience is very diverse :3