Hey lovely folks of fedi who are anywhere on the asexual spectrum 

A friend of ours¹ thinks they might be asexual, but they're doing the doubting questioning thing  (i.e., the thing we mostly all do with sexuality, gender, romanticity, neurodivergence etc.)

Please may we call upon your collective knowledge and experiences to share what asexuality means for you and help us bust some myths for others who might be questioning too?  

Thank you kindly in advance  

Boosts appreciated  

#asexual #demisexual #greysexual #graysexual #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #AskFedi

¹ Yes: we genuinely are asking for a friend! We are very much allosexual ourselves 😅😳

Edit: Changed the link, per a recommendation for a better wiki page 🥰

Edit 2: Thank you to all your varied answers so far! Please keep them coming! Hopefully this will help our friend and others who are questioning. But anyone wondering about us, your experiences very much confirm how allosexual we are 😅😳

Asexual

LGBTQIA
@SleepyCatten I’m gray ace so sex is weird for me. Most of the time it’s not really a consideration for me. But sometimes it is and I do get pleasure from it. Mostly, it’s about satisfying a partner for me. If they’re happy, then I am often happy to oblige even if it’s not exactly something I’m in the mood for. I’m not exactly sure what kinds of myths and beliefs exist around gray ace specifically but if there’s anything I can give perspective on from my own experiences, I’d very much love to answer any questions ​