I'm so grateful that I can talk to the perfect one openly about what other women/men/people we find attractive. And that he's extremely cool with the fact that I find all genders interesting. He doesn't develop any crazy sexual fantasies or feel threatened or less desirable. Which isn't inevitable, of course, but I've experienced that with other people. It's just normal for him and I think he even enjoys talking to me sometimes like he usually only does with other men.
It's great.