[nsfw]
30-something bi-curious married poly lefty.
I like literature, art and politics.
often: kinks, sex, lewd
you've been warned!
| political | lefty and obviously #nobridge |
| kinks/interests | literature, politics, sexuality, eroticism |
22/23.08
summary of 22nd:
Work went okay I did some and I am moderately content. Conversations with M.2 continue as we share similar sense of humour. We do differ however on some other aspects (okay that's trivial) but fortunately he is also a left-oriented mate so it's not a deal-breaker for me! It is refreshing and interesting how we smoothly change from sexual topics to emotions and feelings (which were predominant). I suppose because of that my overall #horniness was pretty low but my head was still full of fantasies which were nicely bubbling.
22nd in numbers:
- average horniness: 4/10;
- max horniness: 5/10;
- number of orgasms: 0;
23.08
the work is a bit difficult today but I did most of my part for today so not bad.
present horniness: 4/10.
21/22.08
summary of 21st:
the planned work didn't go well. It wasn't my day or maybe I was a little bit too tired to work efficiently? It could be also the impact of several conversations I had with people who had answered to one of my posts. Most were nice but two of them were particularly qualitative. The first person (A.) a bit older than me in a stable #cuckold led dynamic told me about his path to the lifestyle. His insights were very interesting and informative. The second human being (M.2) is around my age living in UK but of origins same as I do. His situation is different, he has not told her wife about the fantasy, but we caught surprisingly quick mutual understanding and this amazing flow. I am curious how these acquaintances will develop.
21st in numbers:
- average horniness: 6/10;
- max horniness: 7/10;
- number of orgasms: 3.
22.08
the work is going better! I am excited about things I have read and my brain works fast.
present horniness: 4/10
20/21.08
summary of 20.08:
I went to sleep late due to the conversation I had with a met online mate (let's call him M.). It was nice but ideally I would prefer something not exclusively sex related. Like to build some kind of rapport where you can discuss kinks, fetishes and sex as well as everyday things. Hi is submissive and femdom oriented which is quite interesting as I have never craved being dominated by a woman. His another kink is being controlled by wearing a cage. Again it's not my interest but it made me think that the main reason for that is that I don't feel like being sexually restricted - the only cage I am wearing is my catholic upbringing😂
20th in numbers:
- average horniness: 7/10;
- max horniness: 8/10;
- four orgasms.
21.08
The day begun with some work but I was much less efficient than yesterday so I need to work a bit more after the lunch.
present horniness: 5/10.
I am curious what is Mastodon for you? I've recently discovered that I prefer to look at it rather as some kind of diary shared among people I want to be contact with than as a social media we get used to know. These two ways of functioning are, in my opinion, totally different and force us to have two different approaches to interact with others.
The fact that Masto is not algorithm driven and of decentralised structure makes it less 'interactive'. Usually you don't get hundreds of likes or boosts. Your posts aren't that popular and I argue that maybe they shouldn't be. People interact only if they find some particular content interesting for them similarly to everyday life. It means also that if you want to have a good connection with someone you need to engage with them, and work for it, and look after that relation. It is harder for sure, but maybe just maybe in the long shot it will make our relations with each other less immediate but better and deeper? I hope so.
that's a very nice list!
From: @kitclaw
https://kinky.business/@kitclaw/111625001769002554