Two days ago, I sat down with my mom and had a tough discussion about the upcoming #election. My family are staunch #conservatives and I am not. I let her know of one issue in particular: same-sex marriage.

I let her know how tough it’s been to be gay, married, and to know that every time there’s an election she and my father and siblings have all voted for people who actively want to take this away from me both at a #state and #federal level.

I’m emotionally fatigued but still at peace.

@dleszcynski
Staunch conservative means someone whose compassion is replaced with hate.

@Oldfartrant I disagree. It comes across as #hate outwardly. But the root cause is #fear. Fear is far more powerful than hate.

Recognizing fear helps me humanize folks who are #conservative and hold those values. The fear is certainly misplaced but fear is not rational or logical or sensical. Recognizing it is fear also gives avenues for pulling people out of this state to make progress.

The moment we say they are “hateful” is the moment we can dehumanize them. No one wins then.

@dleszcynski I agree with you. Fear is the opposite of love.