Kris  May 17, 2024
Gender segregated bathrooms are sexist and should be banned and im not kidding
Show threadtyzbitMay 17, 2024
@endali

women using bathrooms previously specified as for men: unsafe, isolated

women using bathrooms previously specified as for women: unsafe, uncertain to gauge the threat before walking in

men using bathrooms previously specified as for men: no change for decent guys, for shitty guys now they can harass women in an isolated area away from other people while she's her most vulnerable (and perhaps unable to be heard if she screams)

men using bathrooms previously specified as for women: the patriarchy grows stronger

Can you outline how these statements are not true or accurate -- or if they are true, how it's still worth banning gender-specific bathrooms?
Show threadKris  May 17, 2024

@tyzbit normalising men acting shitty in bathrooms is the same mindset as "if they didnt want to get molested they should not get into walk bad parts of town", it doesnt adress the problem at all

It's men who need to learn to behave, not women who need to be penalised for the few shitheads acting out of place by having to wait 10x longer in the bathroom queue

Maybe disgusting cishet men being stripped of their own space that they can be machismo in will do something good for their narrow mind

Show threadChris Downey
@endali @tyzbit I agree with the principle but I fear such a policy would put some women at risk who did not choose to be on the front line.
May 17, 2024 at 8:40pmWeb
Show threadWobblyElmerMay 17, 2024

@Chrisdowney @endali @tyzbit

jfc... all you gotta do is not be an asshole. WTF are we going to normalize that?

Show threadtyzbitMay 17, 2024
@WobblyElmer @Chrisdowney @endali I appreciate your ferocity and your message is dead simple, however I only control me. There are 4 billion other men on this planet and I can't stop them from being an asshole so I have to make decisions based on the behavior I expect them to have, not on the behavior they should have. Until we are able to effectively keep men from being an asshole, I suggest we make decisions based on how people actually behave.