It's trope discussion Monday! What do you think about non-sexual kink in fics? What makes it work for you? Can you recommend a good fic featuring non-sexual kink? 
It's trope discussion Monday! What do you think about non-sexual kink in fics? What makes it work for you? Can you recommend a good fic featuring non-sexual kink? 
@FandomChats I wrote something recently that technically counts but the kink content is very very brief https://archiveofourown.org/works/54713407
Similarly to what others have said, I'm often unsure whether something "counts" as non-sexual kink because I've heard mixed things vis a vis whether it's still non-sexual kink if the characters are aroused and getting sexual gratification even if no one comes or has their genitals touched etc. I find "characters doing kink stuff that is erotic but getting off in the present moment is not the point of the interaction right now" easier to grasp and to write than characters doing kink where the charge/appeal is entirely nonsexual/gratifying on a different level, though I enjoy reading and writing that as well... But I don't want to engage in false advertising if someone is looking for the latter and I'm writing the former.