Why so many men like to play with a female character?

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Why so many men like to play with a female character? - sh.itjust.works

I’m not judging, I’m genuinely curious. The reason why I’m asking is because in this sort of games I like to make the character resemble me as much as possible in every aspect, so I’m just curious to know what is the motivation behind men that decide to play as a female character.

I make my V an attractive and slim woman with a massive dong so it’s absolutely nothing like me.
Making the exact same character in every game gets old after a while. Also boobs.
I think for a lot of people part of the fantasy is getting to be someone else.
The only game I’ve tried to make a character resemble myself was GTA5, just because it seemed funny. Otherwise, I make up a character and some are male, some are female.
For me, it’s the voice. For a voiced character like V, it requires a very special talent to take you on a journey with them, to listen to their fear, pain, anger and despair. Cherami Leigh just does such a fantastic job of bringing V to life for me, of really bringing that raw emotion out and making it feel real!
Mass Effect was the same. Femshep Gang \m/
I’ve played through completely twice, once masc, once fem, and femV is such a better voice actor. The mascV sounds more like a cartoonish version of V, if that makes sense.

I was actually just thinking about that the other day. As far as I can tell, people tend to fall in to one of two camps:

  • Make the character look as much like (a potentially idealized version of) yourself as possible
  • Make the character look nothing like yourself
  • I always make my characters completely different from me, so they often (maybe 60-70% of the time) end up being women. My friend always makes them look as close to himself as possible.

    I think it comes down to different styles of roleplay. I’m myself every day. Why would I want to be myself but Cyberpunk? My friend, on the other hand, wants to imagine himself as being in that world.

    And then you have the third camp of people who make their characters horny or humorous, which can be fun to do occasionally but I cannot imagine doing regularly.

    Play by the no center sliders rule a la Monster Factory.

    There he is, hero of earth camera pans to the most fucked up gremlin you’ve ever seen

    I think women are cool.
    If its a 3rd person game and im gonna be looking at someones ass for 40 or so hours, im gonna make it an ass I enjoy seeing.
    One of the weirdest people I ever knew said that exact thing about why he played a girl in Pokémon games. That dude was incredibly sus.
    That’s weird. I was talking about custom made phat ass booty bitches on Ark. Aren’t the Pokemon protagonists rather young?
    I believe they are canonically ten years old, yes. We were in college when he said that. I don’t know how deep this goes, I stopped talking to him soon after.
    Man I’ve no idea why I do it. In have a female VR avatar too. I’ve thought about it. It’s just what I do. Like, there’s no desire to be a woman in me, but in virtual space I just seem to be one.

    Character customization is one of my favorite parts of the game. And to be honest dressing up a “hot” woman is more fun than a guy to me.

    Also I like looking at a woman more than a man. So there’s that too.

    Role playing is much more fun when I’m not playing someone similar to me.
    I play in 3rd person and I’m a ass man

    This exactly. If I’m going to spend hours staring at or hearing a voice, if rather it be attractive to me.

    Man-ass or male grunting are not my particular flavor of candy.

    In cyberpunk I did both. I made a blades only femme fatale with sandevistan and mantis blades, and I made a male hacker V with smart weapons.

    I suppose I base my choices more on what fantasy I have in mind for my character than the fact that I’m a man myself, but if that isnt as much of a factor I very pragmatically go with “girl ass on screen > dude ass on screen”.

    I don't generally do that. But...what do YOU want to look at when you play games?
    On Skyrim, cause I have boob mods,and I love boobs. On any other game I generally play male chatacters cause I am male and that is therefore more relateable to me

    Some of the best cyberpunk characters are women and the clothing is cooler.

    For the former point: molly millions/Sally shears and YT were both by far the most interesting characters in the sprawl series and snow crash respectively.

    Funny thing about cyberpunk as a genre is the women are often the badasses with complex characters and the male leads are usually bumbling selfish dummies that generally fail to resolve anything (Hiro protagonist in snow crash, Johnny mnemonic, case in neuromancer, and to a lesser degree bato in GIS who's just clueless half the time instead of bumbling).

    For the latter: mox gear is better than worn browns and grays.

    I also just think the voice actor is better and Judy is the most interesting love interest.

    There are a few reasons, but please note that this list is by no means exclusive to Cyberpunk 2077…

    Games are about escaping reality, as a man I can tell you that in my experience, men are often locked down into a generic “man” mold that is never broken in real life. Gaming gives us a way to pretend to be someone else completely.

    Female characters in games tend to be funnier to play as, they often has better dialog and more customization options.

    Finally, one of the biggest reason men play as female characters in games is simply because it is better to have pretty female character to look at when gaming rather than a generic boring male character, this obviously includes boobs.

    When I first played an rpg with a basic character creator (the demo of bg2 I think, it’s been a while), I made a character that was as close to me as possible.

    When I was in a period of playing lots of rpg, I tended to make characters that were far from myself and with lots of variation. So more often than not female, but not always.

    And now that I play less rpg again, in the rare case that I start a new game, I again make characters that are close to me in looks. Usually an older greyer version, but still recognizably me.

    For Cyberpunk I’ve played both because I play to enjoy the performances, and they’re both different performances. Now when replaying I always do female V because her performance is bloody incredible (not in any way saying the performance of Gavin Drea was bad mind you! But Cherami Leigh knocked it so far out of the park that I consider that personally the “canon” performance)

    The character in the game doesn’t have to have anything to do with me at all. Just like a main character in a movie or a book doesn’t have to look or be anything like me for me to enjoy it. I’m looking for interesting stories not my auto-biography

    ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ It just feels right man
    Games is about new experiences, escapism if you will. Playing as somebody else and trying to thing how that person would act and feel adds to the escapism.
    I tend to gravitate towards female characters in single player games and I ask myself this same question a lot. The weird thing is that I have no gender preference when my options are more limited - it’s only when I’m being asked to customize my appearance. With male characters I never really know what I’m looking for - usually what looks right is what looks familiar. Maybe I’ll be scrolling through hair options, find something that reminds me of Aragorn, and before I know it that’s who I’m roleplaying. With a female character it’s easier for me to resist these influences and make someone original because I can rely on my own preferences to tell me what looks right. I’ll still play male characters if I have a specific influence in mind, but otherwise I find myself much more likely to actually finish a game as a female PC.

    Obviously subjective, but;

    • Smaller hitbox
    • Better animations
    • Many awesome games where the equally awesome protagonist is female (Metroid, Portal, Hellblade, Tomb raider, Horizon, etc)
    • If the story is based on the character, it's often more emotionally intelligent
    • Usually more agile, fast, stealthy, and has long-range attacks (magic users, snipers, archers, etc)
    • Usually has more of a flourish in attacks, so fancier and more graceful

    I'm male, 5'7", 150, athletic build. Definitely male in appearance, but I'm not bulky. To your point about "the character looking as much like you as possible", depending on the game, my frame is more similar to the female than the guy who's neck is bigger than my waist.

    I like smash-em-ups just fine, but sometimes I want to approach the mechanics as I would in real life, and that's intentionally, and executed with subtlety. A lot of male-focused paths/stories are forced to be blunt force and loud.

    Also, if you're going to look at an ass for 100+ hours, better make it a pretty ass.
    You assume "pretty ass" is limited to women, for any given male player...
    Nope, but probably a majority 😄
    You get to guild your own big titty goth girls.

    I started my first playthrough as a male. But male V just seemed like a dull loud asshole. So I restarted as female V. For me this seems like the intended way. V is still loud and brutal but also seemed more sensitive to me.aybe it’s just the voice acting.

    One of my biggest criticisms points is, that it’s not really possible to play a calm and collected character in Cyberpunk. That’s something I’m dearly missing. Cyberpunk 2077 is not really an rpg.

    I would like to know why so many people do what you do: create themselves. That is so… boring…? I have never had such an urge. But then, I barely care about my own appearance at all (gamer moment), so I guess that makes sense.
    You never had the idle fantasy of what you’d do during a zombie apocalypse or with superpowers? If not, dang thats rough. Some folks want to self-insert, I don’t blame 'em for having a power fantasy. Heck I’m on team human male knight myself.
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    Of course I have. I guess I just think of playing games differently, where I want to help the story of someone else unfold, rather than self-insert.
    I like to make a character that I think I would enjoy being. That doesn’t necessarily mean someone exactly like me, but also not exactly unlike me.
    When I was a kid I’d always choose princess peach in mario kart. I think it was my way of subtly projecting my confidence in my own masculinity. Basically showing off lol
    I was an egg so now I’m a woman playing a female character.
    I used to make characters look like me, but I found that got boring. And in this age of hyper monetisation and paid costumes it was costing me money. I figured that it was more fun to make an interesting character out of free costumes. And it turns out I like staring at a female character more than a male one.
    Unlike some, I prefer to make a character that doesn’t represent me physically. As a man, I find it more interesting to play as a female protagonist.

    2077 is a first person game, so seeing the character really only happens in the menu. In third person games where I can see my character, I… just prefer seeing women. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like a game is worse if I can’t look at a female character, but if I have a choice, why not?

    For 2077 I’m not exactly sure why I chose it the first time. It may have had something to do with not being able to make a male character that looked like some version of me. I probably didn’t like the long hair options. I don’t regret it though, I really like Judy.

    If it’s 3rd person game, most of the time I roll female characters cus I just like looking at women. My inner perfectionist desires pretty. I noticed a funny trend, if I roll a male character and the model doesn’t look 11/10 I will just get bored of that game and stop playing lmao
    Well, don’t want to play myself. So I made “random” good looking characters. Which I realized years down the line, that I’m subconciously creating my current girlfriend, ex, crush, etc. It’s funny now going back into old games and seeing a totally different, “random” character from those times

    Many years ago a friend said to me, while I was making my first WoW character for Burning Crusade, why would I want to watch a male character run around everywhere? I considered and agreed with that, and made a female character. Since then I’ve consistently made female characters.

    They are always based on what I would consider attractive at the time. Which hasn’t changed much all things considered, but there are some variations.

    Literally what happened when I showed my girlfriend VR: your avatar is me???
    I’m curious too, what’s the motivation to make the character look like yourself?

    To feel more aligned with a character and try the story on oneself, maybe

    But I also have never tried that as this seems to be a missed opportunity to play as someone else

    Well, when I play a role-playing game, I want to immerse myself into the game as much as possible. I play as myself, and make choices that I would if I were actually there in the moment. To me, it gives my decisions more weight, because they actively affect “me”.

    Fair enough. Self insert is interesting in it’s way.

    When I play a roleplaying game the whole point is to be someone else in another place, so I become them. A different personality, a different gender maybe, a different attitude.

    It’s still me really, since it’s coming out of my imagination. It’s an aspect of me, a chance for that side of me I wouldn’t otherwise engage with to come out and be seen.

    See, when I play these types of games, I always think about what I would do in real life during a given situation. If I had the powers of a protagonist, I’d be saving lives left and right, and looking cool to boot. So, I do that in game, since my power in the real world is so limited, and frankly, boring. Playing Mass Effect trilogy again right now. My Shep looks almost uncannily like me. So, the bonds that I form with the NPCs, the actions I take to save lives of any race, and the tough decisions that accompany them just mean so much more to me, seeing a character that looks like just like me doing them. The voice does sound weird in this particular game, but Shep’s voice actor is really good so I don’t pay it too much mind!
    Just like I don’t play humans in games with non-humans, I’m a dude in real life so I don’t necessarily want to be a dude in-game. Also, the third-person ass thing is a give in, obviously!
    Especially a reptile elven ass
    In XIV I created my tall dommy mommy. It’s boring making thngs based on yourself