@arturo182 Same here. With Blender in particular I end up starting with a tutorial but then wandering off exploring things along the way until I hit the next wall. Discoverability is bad, that's true. But the documentation is usually very good – if you know, where to look, of course. I'm only a once-or-twice-a-year-for-a-couple-of-days type of user. Sufficiently advanced Blender users are indistinguishable from magicians.
BTW: do you know #IanHubert's tutorials?
@arturo182 my approach to such tools has been yours- learn by playing, but then in playing I get much more specific questions (“how to make hollow shape manifold”) that then has a way higher success rate at me finding a tutorial
Generic “getting started with x” tutorials are practically clickbait to me