Anon seeks advice for real world problems

https://lemmy.world/post/14267093

Anon seeks advice for real world problems - Lemmy.World

What’s even the point of a virgin GF? Is this some bizarre “look but don’t touch” fetish?
It’s called being asexual.
Ace here: no it’s not. Don’t drag us into incel-leanings, please.

Speak for yourself. I’m asexual and a virgin as far as genitals and orifices go. I’m a virgin partner and I’m answering someone’s honest question about whether people like me are an incel fetish. We’re not, we’re queer people. You want to call me an incel for being queer, fuck off.

I’m definitely an enthusiastic sex haver if we’re counting chaos magick tho.

What are you even saying?
Being in a relationship without having sex isn’t a fetish, it isn’t an incel thing, it’s a queer thing. As much as the other asexual in this thread would have you believe otherwise.