This is a genuine question because I know that I overthink.

If someone says that they think you are hot but only ever post and boost body types that are nowhere even similar to yours, do you believe them?

I struggle to believe that people who, over months of image sharing have only posted/boosted slender models mean it when they say that they like mine.

My images contain fat.

Please reply with your views.

I'm not sure that I explained myself well and it is a complicated area. I started thinking about it because there are always people who support body positivity in private but publicly post a small slice of body types.

I wonder why the difference. I know that there have been people who I have later discovered didn't want others to think that they would like outside the slim genre.

I'm not criticising. I'm wondering.

@ht_honey 2/n The society is not yet ready for the real freedom. Especially in the own body, intimacy and similar topics. Look at the whole gender story and how the people/society reacted on/to it. It's a basically a same thing. Tons of negativity, harassment bullying. That's why lots of people are separating their private stuff and thoughts from their let's say professional, work or even family ones. I saw such behavior many times. At work one face, at home, privately totally different one.