xfreedTurning Men Down In Public
You can’t do anything if you take all the crazy people on the street in consideration
This man might be crazy! I better go on a date with him lol
agent_flounderYeah. Hilarious.
Turn him down and he yells, calls the woman names, maybe attacks her now or later, stalks her, rapes her, murders her, kills a kid, shoots up a mall, or mows down a crowd with a van, or…
Men fear rejection, women fear being killed.
agamemnonymousWhen men hear “What’s the worst that could happen?” they focus on the “could” and think about probable results and rank them by awfulness. This makes sense because the gender of “man” is sociologically defined in no small part by expendability,
When women hear “What’s the worst that could happen?” they focus on the “worst” and think about awful results and rank them by probability. This makes sense because the gender of “woman” is sociologically defined in no small part by preciousness.
This is completely garbage. The reason women have this attitude towards men is because of all the sexual assault that happens, more than 80% of the victims are women and more than 95% of the perpetrators are men.
This line of reasoning doesn’t have anything to do with the lofty ideals of what a gender role is in society or women thinking themselves “precious” or focusing on “could” vs “worst” or whatever you call that. It has to do with the fact that, statistically, women are in more danger than men. Full stop.
You’ve misunderstood my point.
Please do enlighten me. Because from where I’m standing, it looks like you’ve blamed women considering the worst case scenario on some self-important role attached to their gender, and not the very basic and obvious line of reasoning that their safety is on the line.
I can see that. I neither blame anyone, nor ascribe self-importance. Men are encouraged to disregard threats, women encouraged to take them seriously. This is an observation, not a moral judgement.
Violence against men is statistically underreported, and they’re still the majority of reported victims. Everyone’s safety is on the line, men are just taught to disregard that risk and women are taught not to. Again, observation, not moral judgement.
That’s fair. I did misunderstand your point. It wasn’t very clear just reading it back.