If the cops aren’t throwing you out immediately then you’ve got at least a couple of days to work on your exit strategy.

Make sure you’ve got all your documentation that you can get your hands on. Replacing a social security card or birth certificate is an expense to be avoided if possible.

Start packing, even if you don’t have a solid destination in mind yet. Get everything you need together so you can grab it and go when the necessity and opportunity present themselves.

Reach out. You’re already doing great by asking for help here but you’re going to need a support network wherever you end up. If you have any friends you can rely on, see if they can loan you some crash space for a while. Try contacting local or statewide orgs as they often have resources to assist folks escaping abusive family situations.

Also, please keep in touch. Too many folks that get kicked out by their families end up homeless and none of us want to see that happening to you. If you get cut off then find a library for some free online time and let us know. We’ll do the best we can.