This is a genuine question because I know that I overthink.

If someone says that they think you are hot but only ever post and boost body types that are nowhere even similar to yours, do you believe them?

I struggle to believe that people who, over months of image sharing have only posted/boosted slender models mean it when they say that they like mine.

My images contain fat.

Please reply with your views.

@ht_honey I will be really interested to see what replies you get to this because I have definitely experienced this. Both in terms of body size but also in terms of age.

If all someone does is share images of pics of people who are 20+ years younger than me and a conventionally 'perfect bod' I am always dubious.

I will say there is a massive lack of images of people who don't fit that description which part of why i share mine but still.

@Mollysdailykiss When all the images are slender and young, it makes me not trust their compliments. It takes me back to the occasions where people used compliments as a bullying tactic in front of others.

I absolutely don't think I ma being bullied but it can very easily feel like mockery.