Consumerism, acts as a surrogate for self actualization.
Brand identity, brand loyalty under capitalism, appeals to the reptilian mind, make appeals to emotional psychology of consumers to manufacture illusions of closeness, emotional intimacy.
Just as celebrities manufacture false closeness through Para social relationships of "stanning". Artificial surrogates supplant existing relationships outside of capitalism.
Capitalism, colonialism and all stuctures stemming from it, use various forms of surrogacy combined with psychological tactics, historical and ongoing forms of trauma to disrupt relationships and encourage oppressed ppls to identify with their oppressors.