Tipping culture in U.S.

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Tipping culture in U.S. - Lemmy.World

There are laws in place for service workers related to minimum wage. The employers have to make up the difference if tips don’t meet the rate for hours worked. It seems to me that’s not sufficient for the times. Hypothetically, if everyone were to stop tipping in the U.S. would things be better or worse for workers? Would employers start paying workers more?

Sure would make it simpler.

The employers have to make up the difference if tips don’t meet the rate for hours worked.

Is that true in all states? I thought I read recently that there were still holdouts.

Anyway, in the immediate term it would be terrible for most tipped staff who depend on that money for things like rent, food, gas, etc. For employers to pay more, they would likely need to raise prices; smaller restaurants in particular can operate on some pretty tight margins and I doubt the big guys will take less profit. Where that ultimately would go, I'm not sure.

I live in Japan now and we don't do tips here. Things are more expensive in menu price, but there's no magical 20% to pay after. We also have single-payer health insurance system. Businesses are required to do some health insurance stuff for full-time employees, but I don't know what what point/size. Even if the employee has to pay 100%, health insurance and pension are income-based. Rents are also generally less crazy. As with everywhere, food prices and inflation are issues here, but people are surviving. The bar down the street pays 1500/hour to start (minimum in Tokyo is a bit over 1000/hr) and that's increased for the late night portion leading to a higher amount of pay.

Honestly from what I’ve seen on YouTube videos it looks like Japanese food/restaurants costs less to the customer
Depends on the type of place and where it is, but it can be cheaper. Beers here are quite expensive comparatively. I guess the caution I would give is that I've been back to the US once in the last 6 years (last summer), so things may have changed a lot there that I'm unaware of.

It's amazingly cheap to eat out in Japan compared to the US. I used to live in Japan and have visited since. Just a couple of years ago, even, right before the pandemic struck. It is a little more expensive in Japan now than it was then because they're seeing inflation for the first time in practically forever, but it's still very cheap compared to the US.

It's one of the best things about visiting Japan. You can go nuts eating fantastic food at bargain prices. You can find expensive restaurants if you want to, of course.

Technically it’s required everywhere due to the national minumum wage law (up to 7.25/hr not the state’s min wage if it’s higher that depends on state laws). If they don’t it’s wage theft, but so few employees know this that it happens all the time and basically never gets reported.
Sadly I think that might be the only way to make it stop. But it doesn’t feel right. If a waiter/waitress is getting a zero dollar paycheck, that means they’re making more than some minimum amount. If we stop tipping, they’ll be paid that minimum amount. In our effort to get service jobs fairly paid, should we punish them by paying them less first?

Stuff like more order-at-the-counter or online from your phone instead of a human waiter coming to your table.

This already seems to be happening as companies push to squeeze more and more profits for the shareholders. I was at a local pizza place not long ago that you were forced to scan the QR code and order yourself. They did bring the food out, but that was it. You even had to get your own drink and refills.

Off-topic, but that was also the biggest bill I had from a pizza place in as long as I can remember. It was bumping $100 for 4 of us to eat sub-par pizza.

It’s state by state. And for those that do pay their waitstaff up to minimum wage to make up for low tips, it’s averaged out over a pay period. So a waiter won’t get paid for a low tip hour or even a low tip night necessarily, so long as they hit minimum wage on average over a pay period. Which is not a liveable wage.

Anecdotally, myself and many close and extended family members have waited tables and I can’t recall ever hearing about a time in which someone was paid up to min wage to make up for low tips. There was always some excuse or trick for the restaurant to get out of it.

Hypothetically, I think if everyone stopped tipping, we’d see a drop in service level as restaurants reduced waitstaff. Stuff like more order-at-the-counter or online from your phone instead of a human waiter coming to your table. And I think there would be attempts to pivot to contract or “gig” waitstaff to put a layer between restaurants and employees.

It would be terrible for servers. Every server will report different incomes, but when I served tables I was paid way above a fair wage. I could never imagine a standard wage matching the $40+/hr I made bringing food to tables on the weekend.
Employers would ultimately see it as not their mess, not their problem. They already pay the legal minimum they legally can, if they wanred to pay their employees a living wage the they would assist be doing so. They know that they will lose their current experienced servers, but they also know that there will always be desperate workers who have no choice but to accept the crumbs that are offered.
If tip wage doesn’t meet regular minimum wage then employers are required to pay the difference

Hot take but I think tipping culture is one of the main reasons why Americans are suffering from such large class issues.

In Japan tipping is offensive because it puts the customer above the server when it’s a fair exchange between the two parties. It makes sense imo. For people to respect each profession it has to be treated like an equal value exchange. The server that brings my food is not my temporary slave but we have a social contract that they’ll be hosting me as the representative of the restaurant and “forced donations” completely ruins this exchange. It’s incredibly toxic.

So, all of the general points you make about tipping culture are valid, it’s batshit crazy to say that it’s “one of the main reasons why Americans are suffering from such large class issues.”

Don’t be so hard on them. Consider that media is owned by private interests, and that’s been their whole life. Unions are evil, worker rights are a privilege, and you wouldn’t want to regulate or tax businesses if it means they would make less profit. Nor should you tax established fortunes, even that is used as a direct benefit as leverage. Higher taxes on very high income is also unwise, because that’s also bad.

Tipping culture is obviously one of the main reasons at fault here…

The main reason is that it shifts payment of the wait staff to the customer, not the employer. That means the employer has less payroll, payroll tax, etc. and pockets the difference.

It’s a financial motive, not a classist one.

Can a customer give a tip to a waiter/waitress in case they deliver outstanding service? Because it might be seen wrongly in that case. I’m genuinely curious.
I’m not Japanese but from my time there it seems like no, tips aren’t acceptable unless there’s some explicit mechanic like tip jar or some ritual. I did hear that long term customers tend to bring gifts on special occasions but I think that’s almost never money.

In Japan tipping is offensive because it puts the customer above the server

Saying they don’t put the customer above the server in Japan sounds very wrong to me. Servers use highly polite language to customers, while customers generally act in a way that feels very dismissive to me as an American - e.g. yelling to no one in particular when you want service, saying nothing when a server brings food or drinks. This is my experience at least.

Complete opposite experience here. Customer experience in Japan is top notch except there’s often too much ritual. For example buying electronics often involves like an hour long process as you pick up these cards that represent your items, take them to the cashier, pay, get a long 1 on 1 lesson and onboarding but at the same time it’s what makes the process wholesome and respectful. Bars and restaurants in particular are super wholesome.
Yes, the workers stick to the ritual but customers hardly care. People don’t even greet the konbini workers or say thank you or anything that signals they deal with another human

Hot take but I think tipping culture is one of the main reasons why Americans are suffering from such large class issues.

It’s not a cause, it’s a symptom

It is definitely messed up, but it’s also the only reasonable way for people in a lot of more conservative states to make any money at all as service staff, because those states tend to have comically low base pay for servers because “they work for tips”. It’s an intentionally self-perpetuating cycle that makes things more expensive for customers, and fails to pay the business’s workers what they deserve.

It’s basically enhanced wage theft combined with a pricing structure that also intrinsically hides the fact that the business owner is also intentionally hiding something like 15-25% of their cost of business, and you get to make up the difference.

It’s one of the reasons conservatives have been able to keep the minimum wage down. It’s so terrible. Any idea how to fix it friend?
The minimum wage for servers is around $2 an hour. If we stop tipping, our servers won’t make enough money to survive. Restaurants claim that they can’t afford to pay a living wage and offer prices people are willing to pay. Yay capitalism.
The employer by law has to pay the regular minimum wage if the tips don’t make up the difference.
Does this actually happen though?
It's the law but due to how working for wage thieving losers works, it doesn't happen in practice.
Yeah I assumed as much. Thankfully my state doesn’t have a lower tipped minimum so this is not a concern for me. But I still tip because servers are still underpaid and I want them to be compensated.
I generally want people
To be happy and I tip decently. As far as making under minimum, it’s set so low federally that someone would have to have no tables or be really bad to not make at least $8 an hour. I suppose it would be more likely in cities that have their own higher minimum like Denver ($18).
I doubt it because the “culture” is that you’re a horrible person if you don’t tip stupid amounts so people are shamed into it.
Can you give a cite for this? I don't think this happens everywhere.

en.wikipedia.org/…/Fair_Labor_Standards_Act_of_19…

Under the Fair Labor Standards Act, an employer has to pay each employee the minimum wage, unless the employee is “engaged in an occupation in which the employee customarily and regularly receives more than $30 a month in tips”. If the employee’s wage does not equal minimum wage, including tips, the employer must make up the difference.

www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/minimum-wage/faq

If an employee’s tips combined with the employer’s direct wages of at least $2.13 an hour do not equal the federal minimum hourly wage, the employer must make up the difference.

Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938 - Wikipedia

Thanks for those.

I don't think it is very common knowledge. I wonder how many people earning $2.xx / hr know this.

I went to subway for lunch, and the machine offered 18%, 20%, and 25%

I gave zero because he’s doing his job; if I would have sat down and he served my my sandwich on a plate and refilled my drink, I’d have tipped

Yeah. I’m reluctant to tip anywhere that doesn’t offer table service.
My only exceptions are Housekeeping and Valet, but for food table service(I include delivery under this lable) is required for a tip. Takeout is a no go.

My only exceptions are Housekeeping and Valet

Out of interest, why? (I’m not American)

Tipping in the US pays for service (base rates typically only cover base stuff). Housekeeping and Valet are both traditionally included alongside wait staff. Valets are a big one as it typically falls under a luxury service, just check your mileage before tipping as you may double down in gas/wear if your car is nice enough. For Housekeeping this is only really for Hotels (not motels and not long term stay hotels) and it covers daily sheet/towel changes, garbage removal, etc.

this is only really for Hotels (not motels and not long term stay hotels)

Forgive my ignorance but what’s different about motels and long stay hotels?

Motels “housekeeping” may or may not exist; bring a blacklight if you don’t want to sleep. Long stay hotels require you request housekeeping during your stay (if under one month), and generally only refresh when you check out. Hotels provide daily turndown service including fresh sheets, towels, and consumables (soap, tissues, toilet paper, mints, etc.)
Topping your housekeeper in the first day or so of a hotel stay will drastically improve the cleanliness of your room going forward.

How do you know the same person will clean your room every day?

What’s a girl stay?

Editted. Hotel.

And they talk to each other. They know which rooms are bad and which are good

This is different. Counter service places do NOT make a tipped wage and so it is actually not necessarily to tip. I tip people who make a tipped wage like servers.
How do you know which employees make a tipped wage? Does it vary by area? (Not American, I don’t know)
Counter service gets no tip.
Not always the case

No, it’s basically consistent across the US. Servers (waiters and waitresses) and I believe food delivery drivers are paid a tipped wage.

Essentially everyone else is not paid a tipped wage and you should not feel compelled to tip them. Absolutely no one at any counter service restaurants or fast food trucks are paid a tipped wage, even though the computer screen often asks you if you want to tip. There is no need to.

Wrong www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/state/…/tipped

More states are following.

Minimum Wages for Tipped Employees

DOL
What about coffee baristas?
Why would they be any different? They don’t work a “tipping wage” and they aren’t bringing your food to your table or refilling drinks.
The only way out of this whole thing is to just never tip counter service, and to never tip really well for waiters. It feels bad, but the whole system is built around exploiting your guilt as a customer. It encourages wait staff to fight for better employment.
When I tip I prefer to do so in cash so they can just pocket it. When I was a dishwasher I remember the good, hardworking servers walking out every night with huge roll of bills, and they would go buy groceries without paying taxes on it.

I also do this most of the time.

Cash is also much less likely to go anywhere but where you want it to go.

I hate that many places "split tips* because I want to tip my waiter. Not that fuck stain across the room hitting on his table.
I worked with someone like that until she wanted to buy a house. Banks looked at her claimed income and gave a hearty "lol, no". She started claiming all her tips after that. I don't remember what happened after that (this was like 2003ish)
Enabling tax evasion doesn’t sound like a good thing to me!