don't. in fact, do literally anything else. maybe knit a scarf instead?
@mia moderating anything beyond a bunch of friends sounds like pain and i dont want to sibject anybody to it

@ezio @mia Moderating a bunch of friends is worse tbh, when shit hits the fan you might find yourself losing your friends too  

(the above comment is entirely hypothetical and unrelated to my instance losing 2 out of 4 users recently)