StrikerBe yourself and be true to who you are. Don't let neurotypical conditioning define your identity.
The BartoI’ve been trying that maintain eye contact thing, how to they do that? Doesn’t’t the constant screaming in their heads hurt them?
SoleInvictusYou’ve probably heard this already but, in case you haven’t, try watching their eyebrows or right above them instead. It’s a lot less awkward for some people for reasons I don’t completely understand.
Remember to look away for a moment every ten seconds or so unless you’re trying to seduce or intimidate them! It becomes a routine after awhile. Also, humans are really weird.
TolosOmg, never heard that before, thank you.
I do 5 on, 2 off for eye contact timing. It seems to work pretty well in terms of passing as nt and focusing on the task of timing it reduces the discomfort of eye contact in the first place for me
Eye contact is such a weird thing. Why do people even do it? We could just as easily stare at each other’s chins or only talk facing away from each other, standing back to back.
I have no inherent feelings about it. I actually had to learn to look away because looking fixedly in people’s eyes creeped them out.
gilaNah, it’s significantly harder to hear someone f2f if their face isn’t pointed towards yours. It’s also hard to keep track of where they are if they’re behind you, which is why people usually have the instinct to turn around whenever a sound source pans left to right behind them or gets closer. Evolutionary advantage