How do you meditate? For many people, meditation involves sitting down, often in some variation of Lotus (or just criss-cross applesauce) posture, closing your eyes, and focusing on breath. Maybe we use a mantra. Maybe we recite a sutra. Maybe there's a physiological component, like kundalini locks. But for most people, meditation involves stopping activities, and sitting in one place. Why is that?

I meditate while driving. I really do. It does not impede my ability to see what's happening and react to it. It may even improve it, I'm not sure. I meditate while grocery shopping. I meditate when I listen to a lecture or when I write. Meditation can be active just as it can be passive.

The goal of meditation is simple: find the quiet place in your mind, and rest there. It does not matter what your body is doing, or even what your mind is doing *outside* that quiet place. Thoughts and ideas could be whizzing by, but as long as you keep your awareness resting in the stillness, they don't matter.

@tin I also found it useful to see meditation as an action. Moment to moment. Not to be held or analyzed, just simply done.

@tin I first learned to meditate 50 years ago. They said try sitting in a lotus position. I couldn’t. They said chant this mantra. That didn’t hold my attention. Then I felt this flow. Was the flow because of the breath, or was the breath because of the flow? What even was it? It didn’t matter. I could meditate on it. I could meditate.

With a little practice I found I could do it all the time, or at least as much as I wanted—while driving, while grocery shopping, while eating, while speaking, in silence, or while listening to music. Decades later I found that people went to great lengths to get snatches of this experience that I could have all the time. They called it ASMR.

I don’t try and analyze the effects of meditating like this. I don’t claim it will help you discover you’re a buddha. I don’t teach it to others. But I can do it at this or any other moment, and just be.