‘Pure greed:’ Etiquette expert explains why tipping has gotten out of control

https://lemmy.world/post/8151509

and there’s no real consensus about how tipping should work.

Versus how is always worked before?

Because there is consensus on that, it was a very straightfor rule.

The tip was a private transaction between a customer and an employee who went above and beyond the service that the employees’ boss require them to do, to perform the job to the customer satisfaction.

It had nothing to do with the boss or the company they were working for (no tipping automation on the registers, etc.).

And it wasn’t ever used in lieu of the employee receiving enough of an income at the company they worked at.

And it wasn’t ever used in lieu of the employee receiving enough of an income at the company they worked at.

Unfortunately that is not true. Restaurants in most states in the US have a law that allows employers to pay tipped employees a much lower wage (about 2 bucks an hour) with the expectation that tips will bring them back up to minimum wage or higher.

I’m talking about the past, not the current situation. The vast majority of people had living wages back then.
The article is saying “before” as in “before the changes that happened because of COVID”. I don’t know when the inflection point was where we shifted to shit wages for traditionally tipped jobs, but it was many many years ago. When COVID hit we were not giving living wages to servers.

The article is saying “before” as in “before the changes that happened because of COVID”.

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic

But now that we are out about and back to normal, the custom of tipping for just about everything has somehow remained;

No. Tipping culture 100% existed before COVID. This isn’t an opinion. It’s well documented. You are either willfully ignorant or a troll. This discourse has run its course.

This discourse has run its course.

“So shall it be written, so shall it be done.” /waveshandsabout