queer identity has always been a political stance for me, less about any essential nature and more a statement against cisheteronormativity. if there's a hegemony enforcing transwomanhood as an imperative, i feel a desire to resist it by identifying with whatever that hegemony stigmatizes (e.g. femboys). this means my identity is partially context dependent. i can be a trans woman to transmisogynists, a non-binary person to truscum, a femboy to misandrists, etc.. i am whatever offends identity police most