ReddywhpQ: who's your "one that got away"? Might be romantic, might be someone you wanted to do a scene with.
A: Well, I'm married 20 years, and have a collared Jackal, and a local boy. So they don't get away if it's something we both want. And if they don't want me back, I don't want them. I'm weird in that I find mutual attraction to be attractive... and required. Thinking in terms of "the one that got away" seems rapey to me. Been an active SM/player for decades...
