A: In no particular order: assertiveness, reliability, trustworthiness, sexual chemistry/compatibility, intelligence, emotional stability.
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Q: Thoughts on the typical leatherman look (jock chaps vest gloves boots etc)
A: My thoughts on your description of "typical leatherman"? I mean, it's iconic for multiple reasons:Versatile, functional, generally gives good access to what you may want. I wouldn't call it typical, don't see that specific look out at bars so much anymore. Or even walking around event lobbies.
Q: your favourite gear?
A: I guess you missed that I don't answer the "what's your favorite ___" questions. It's too fluid over time, and too broad a topic. Far too many types of gear. Gear is situation dependent. Try again with a more targeted question, and I'll try to answer it.
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Q: Do you still play with the fuck machine? If so I'd love to see another "locked and loaded Reddy" video.
A: I've only used the fuck machine maybe 4 times ever. It's my husband's acquisition. I more want someone else to be playing with my hole rather than myself.
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So the last #kinkAMA wasn't really two questions. It was an statement unrelated to the question, then a question.
That opening statement felt like something I had to reply to... because that's who I am. :)
Q: who's your "one that got away"? Might be romantic, might be someone you wanted to do a scene with.
A: Well, I'm married 20 years, and have a collared Jackal, and a local boy. So they don't get away if it's something we both want. And if they don't want me back, I don't want them. I'm weird in that I find mutual attraction to be attractive... and required. Thinking in terms of "the one that got away" seems rapey to me. Been an active SM/player for decades...
Q: We're doing #chastity now? well crap, that's a loss to everyone you could be fucking.
A: I appreciate the interest, not really a top. I mean I do (did) it now and then, but fucking as a top is super-rare. Chastity for me is more about keeping me from masturbating as well as getting off in general. That said, my holes are still quite available for use. Better to see what the person likes & wants rather than applying your expectations to them.
Q: what do u think about piercings
A: Well, that's a pretty broad question, and could just be one of the auto-questions prompted by Tellonym...
I like septum, and occasionally earrings. Other head piercings are generally "meh" to me. Not bad, but not attractive to me.
Nipple rings are fun to play with. PAs are good for anchor points.
Not really a fan of most others. So ampallang, ladders, guiche, nostril, and other #piercing styles don't interest me.
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