@paul A little nuanced, but I'd recommend either Wireguard (which has the advantage of supporting auto-connection on foreign Wifi) or Tailscale (which is comparatively far easier to set up)
Happy to discuss more if you have interest.
As of 1.48, released 3 days ago, TailScale supports VPN on Demand.
My apologies. I leave my exit node enabled all the time and never toggle it off so my quick test I did just now leaves it enabled.
But if you have it disabled then, no, there is no way to tell it to re-enable a specific node.
@caseyliss @paul I just set Wireguard up at home with the GL.iNet Beryl you recently recommended for travel and their Brume 2 for the home client/server.
It was super simple. I’m shocked to hear Tailscale is simpler?