After a professional diagnosis of autism some autistic people can doubt their diagnosis. Years of internalized ableism and doubts from others can contribute to a feeling of being an imposter.

Imposter syndrome isn’t discussed as much in the community but is something many struggle with.

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I am highly empathetic, to the point if I think about or observe a person getting injured, I feel pain usually in my lower body. High empathy + social awkwardness can come across as not being empathetic I guess. Been told for years by people I am not autistic, until my diagnosis, then some of them switched to saying "I told you so".

@untemperedsteel @autism101 @actuallyautistic I've always had a high empathy & yes my vagus nerve contracts sharply when I observe distress or an injury. The sharp contraction is the opposite feeling to how people describe the bottom falling out of their heart... that weird dropping sensation of shock which is the vagus nerve going slack very suddenly.

Interesting to me I was diagnosed as autistic around 4 but my mother decided to ignore the dx because she did not want the stigma πŸ₯΄πŸ˜† I was never told I was autistic but well someone telling you doesn't change whether you are, aye πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Years later I received a TBI in a motorcycle accident & was referred to a research study looking at ways to promote recovery... after all the scans & tests the researchers told me >>you are autistic<< πŸ€”πŸ™„πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ The stereotypes for autism are abysmal πŸ’” The misunderstanding about the >>differences<< are abysmal πŸ˜ͺ The difference is NOT abysmal πŸ’

Some people with autism will not have empathy just like some non divergent don't have any...

@juliasnz @autism101 @actuallyautistic
The closest analogue to the sensation, is when a car goes too fast over the top of a hill or perhaps on a roller-coaster. The sensation is normally in the stomach but sometimes as a unpleasant internal pressure in the area where I imagine the other person feeling pain. It often does have to be imagined pain also, sometimes the other person does not actually injure themselves.