I've long believed that the crucial advantage of the term "queer" over the acronyms is that it acknowledges that diversity is not something you can exhaustively enumerate. we must be always prepared to embrace diversity that we hadn't considered before. this is the most consistent inclusivity
@lewdum Yeah, this is why I like the phrase GRSM (gender, romantic, or sexual minority) since it's not trying to enumerate through everything so it includes everything

@salsagal @lewdum I really should take the advice given elsewhere to mind my own business, but does the word "minority" in GRSM have a shade of demeaning connotation?

However, in wondering that, my general position is just to respect people and use the term(s) they prefer for themselves.

@ungivishe @lewdum Nah, it's not demeaning, it just means it's not the majority, which queer people definitely aren't
@salsagal @lewdum works for me