I was going to say, it's way easier to find replies here than on facebook - like, I'll literally click a notification that someone's sent a reply to me there, and give up on finding the context *after I've already clicked through*.
But facebook *used to* work during its growth phase. It's now in the immiseration phase, so I guess it's normal for the UX to be crap.
@NoraReed
How to follow someone on your fedi instance when you've found their account not through fedi, but like on their website or whatnot - that probably needs fixing.
Like, yeah it's no different from what we do with email addresses, but we forget what it was like before everyone online basically knew what to do with email addresses.
I'm honestly not sure how well mailto: links work anymore given how common webmail is.
For me personally they do what I don't want more often than they do what I want. But again: here I am on fedi so almost by definition weird.