One suggestion: If you want the fedi to be a welcoming place, don't jump in to someone's mentions to explain the fedi UNLESS explicitly asked to do so.

"But...."

But nothing. This place will survive a little technical misunderstanding or misstatement.

It will not survive newcomers being bombarded with endless fedisplaining.

@design_law Also, over enforcement of customs will lead to stagnation, better to also customs and traditions to form and evolve naturally.
@GreatIrishElk @design_law If I had a nickel for every variation on "we do X here" I've seen someone declare, I'd be a very rich robot indeed.