@gocu54 @gwynnion @lisamelton no, the problem is in the definition of masculinity.
A definition of masculinity which has at its core the concept of dominating others and the superiority of men over other genders is false and wrong. A definition which says it’s masculine to destroy one’s self for no other reason than to do it (which serves others who take advantage) is false and wrong.
A definition where masculinity is a strength that helps loved ones and community is good