Every "men and masculinity are in crisis" story basically calls men dweebs and losers for letting women and other people have rights and tells them they better start getting fascist if they want to be in the Cool Guys club.
@gwynnion @lisamelton Help me understand. I'm a man. This means I'm masculan. Is it now bad to be a man? I don't lord it over people that I'm a man.
@gocu54 @gwynnion @lisamelton no, the problem is in the definition of masculinity.
A definition of masculinity which has at its core the concept of dominating others and the superiority of men over other genders is false and wrong. A definition which says it’s masculine to destroy one’s self for no other reason than to do it (which serves others who take advantage) is false and wrong.
A definition where masculinity is a strength that helps loved ones and community is good
@Gorba @gwynnion @lisamelton Ah, so its not bad to be a proud man but its bad to use that to feel superior to other genders is not good? Got you. thanks. Sometimes, it can be hard as a man. you sometimes feel guilty for even existing because there are assholes out there who make you look bad as a gender. I don't want to intimidate people just by being a dude.
@gocu54 @gwynnion @lisamelton it’s the assholes like Tate Elon & others that make the gender look bad
@Gorba @gwynnion @lisamelton Andrew tate is a menace to society. He has made men bitter and hateful towards women because of his red pill bullshit. Oh, and the men going their own way movement. That is just an excuse to be more abusive towards women.