1/ The biggest tip I'd like to give newcomers to the Fediverse (aside from the standard stuff like 'fill out your bio/pick an avi') is this: don't expect it to be perfect.
Yes, you will periodically run into people who are annoying/rude here too. They're everywhere. It's part of life. Yes, the way it works will sometimes frustrate you. Every platform is the same in that sense. Yes, you have to put time into getting established & learning how to use it. All communities are the same there too.
2/ Nothing is perfect. The Fediverse has its flaws. It is and probably always will be a work in progress. Both people who think it can do no wrong and people who think it is utterly terrible are likely ignoring important things.
At the end of the day it's a community with all the inherent issues communities have. But I'd argue it's a good and worthwhile community that you learn to appreciate more the more effort you put into being a part of it.
3/ Maybe the Fediverse not for you. That's fine! If you expect a utopia you'll be disappointed but if you expect it to be what it is - a thriving and evolving community that gives you back what you put in - you'll find a lot to love. There are a lot of talented, thoughtful, interesting, and creative people here who love to welcome new folks to the mix.
This place isn't perfect. Democracies aren't. But it *is* what I would consider a democracy and that is a beautiful thing.
No algorithms.
No ads.
No owners.
That’s a solid foundation. After that, it’s really up us.
Abandoned America
Alexander Karn
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