I really, deeply wish everyone would make some collective effort to unlearn the passive argumentative nature we all learned from Twitter.

Everyone always treated posts like invitations to debate or argue every point.

We deserve better than this. We don’t have to do that.

@louie I’ll admit, I like the sort of low stakes, low importance arguments/debates that can crop up on occasion, as long as it’s with other people who are looking for it as well. I’ve been trying to make a point of noticing when I actually start treating it as more than that and just stepping away, though.

@Serenus I *love* to argue, but it has to be mutually decided and/or between friends.

Too often, one side decided to argue but the other person didn't agree to participate.