Content warning: Please don't use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression
Feditips were right along as apparently, lemmy.ml, the “official” Lemmy as they blocked all Kbin instances from talking with their officially Lemmy server. https://kbin.social/m/fediverse/t/104312/Lemmy-ml-is-blocking-all-requests-from-kbin-Instances #kbin #lemmy
There are the lemmy instance that is managed by the same guy that runs infosec exchange.
Also, there is a Kbin run by the same people.
Note: These instances aren’t affiliated with the Lemmy devs.

@ai @fujiwara @Nikelui How deletion works is that if the user follow you on their server, the post should delete on their server.
Also, Urusai is in our relay, which connects with Sakurajima.moe and social. That means if a post is deleted on social, it will be removed on Sakurajima Moe and Urusai Social plus other servers that a user is following you from.
You can learn more about federation at https://mastodon.help. The basics of how federation works is the same with all software that works with ActivityPub
Too many people are confusing the two. Whenever lemmy.ml [http://lemmy.ml] or its devs do something stupid, people go “Lemmy is getting worse and worse,” or “I’m leaving Lemmy,” or worse, “I’m leaving for Beehaw.” If you’re using Beehaw, then you’re using Lemmy. Lemmy is the software these instances run on. If you don’t like lemmy.ml [http://lemmy.ml], join another instances that have rules that match your philosophy. Some instance hosts authoritarian or fascist shit? Turn to another Lemmy instance. Lemmy.ml [http://Lemmy.ml] is not even the biggest instance. People who just joined and are unfamiliar with the platform will just think the entire Lemmyverse is run by autocratic admins if we don’t get our terminology right.