So one of the things that has always confused and frustrated me about the autistic experience (even long before I knew I am autistic!) is the way allistic people feel, to me, like they are constantly over-simplifying everything.

The past week or so, I've been kicking around a hypothesis with my partner (they are also autistic), and I think together we've stumbled onto something big.

We're beginning to suspect that allistic brains do this as a protection mechanism, automatically and unconsciously, much like our heartbeats. It's a way to avoid overwhelm.

Just like we might rely on noise cancelling headphones to not get overwhelmed by sounds, I think allistic brains naturally reduce ideas to simpler forms to prevent getting overwhelmed by details and complexity.

(This is really a much bigger thing than fits into a single post, but that's a good preview of the larger cascade of understanding we've been unleashing lately.)

#ActuallyAutistic

@mordremoth
Yes, that rings true. And don't they just hate it when you try to slow things down and think it through, or point out to them that what they just said isn't quite right.

And a problem with my reply is that I said "they" when arguably I should have said "we". So what does that say about me?

Well, this wasn't about me, so I'll leave that thought on hold and return to your idea. There must be an evolutionary advantage to BOTH working it out thoroughly for accuracy AND simplifying for speed and convenience. Either can get eaten by the tiger, depending in the circumstances. And it is in the interests of the species to maintain diversity so that, in any given scenario, a decent number survive to reproduce.

Nice! I hope I understood your toot. I like the cascade it started over here!

#SelfishGene

@afwesty Yep, that's it exactly - both styles are important, in different cases. We really all shine best when we work together, even though society today is often set up in ways that keep us at odds.
@mordremoth
So true.