@VCP @airlynx
Oh wow, so you are an expert!! 🙂
Screen door was my preferred method, too. I had a mobile screen in doorframe size which I could even insert between different rooms, which was nice.

I added 'clicker training' to my door regime with the 2 cats back then, i.e. whenever I wanted to reward a shown wanted behaviour (breaking the stare etc.) the cat immediately got a treat. Timing is of the essence here, to not reward the behaviour before or after.
Long process.

@666k9s

@Lojie
Relaying the whole convo to my wife she reminded me that we were using Feliway after we got the dog because it was stressful on everyone. That helped a lot
@VCP @666k9s

@airlynx @VCP @666k9s
Hi VCP and wife, thanks 🙂

I noticed that Feliway "took the edges off", too. Or rather, I noticed it when the bottle was empty ... difference was subtle but there.

@airlynx @Lojie @VCP
Yes, we have 3 bottles of the stuff and also some calming drops from Jackson Galaxy which made a huge difference for Betty. Will be giving some to Stevie now too. The Dog has some Rescue Remedy from Dr. Bach.
@Lojie @VCP @airlynx
We'll try that too. Maybe get some Valium for the humans? 😹