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@hacks4pancakes @bcrypt @malwareunicorn I've got a friend that's a lady in infosec dealing with a lot of the same bullshit you all have endured, and I was wanting to see if there's a Discord you might recommend for women in infosec. Appreciate yall, keep kicking ass.
Lesley Carhart 
@hacks4pancakes I am VERY sorry, that was not intentional. We talked quite a few years ago now (ca. 2016-17?) on Twitter and if that was the state of things then I may have been totally oblivious. Never my intention to misgender anyone.