People think ‘cis’ is a slur because that's how they think about and use ‘trans‘, as a slur.
If you can look at what's going on in this rapidly nazifying world and the thing you're taking issue with is my toot, not the fucking nascent genocides, feel free to fuck right off
When you're a trans woman you can't even say the *mildest* shit without pushback. No matter how small you make yourself, someone's telling you 'no, be smaller' while casually waving the cudgel to make clear what happens if you don't