What's with the schism between lemmygrad and beehaw? - Lemmy.world

I am exploring Lemmy right now and what I see is very worrying to me, but I also don’t understand wth is going on with some instances here. I don’t know if it’s smart to post this, but here we go. I am partial to Marxist and anarchist ideology, but lemmygrad looks completely unhinged to me. Is it a parody? Some content is fine and some of it is insane. On the other hand, beehaw looked super inviting from the outside and I even applied to join them. Then, I looked closer and that instance’s moderation looks totalitarian and rigid in the other way. (I understand why they blocked lemmygrad though…) I’m seeing this impact other communities in different ways and there’s some kind of witch hunt happening on both sides… I want to interact with people that can respect each-other and that can hold open-minded discussions about any topics without devolving into some tribal war.