hey everybody. i have decided to embrace my non-binary identity. after spending my entire transition deliberating the question of whether i deserve the label and what it really means, i have come to realise that it fits how i feel much better. so much love for everyone who unknowingly helped me figure this out, which includes a lot of you here. i used to be afraid that I'd be overcomplicating myself and become more of a burden to others, now i want to stop fighting what i feel and love myself more deeply.
my partner asked me what this means for how she treats me, i took a while to think about it and answered that nothing about our relationship changes, we are far past identity by this point. this is about changing how i relate to the world around me, how i meet and get to know people. more importantly it's going to be a lighthouse for me when i'm in rough waters. it is an affirmation i can return to instead of a target that makes me feel worse when i get too close to hitting it.
@asterisk Congratulations! I hope self love comes quickly and plentifully to you. 💜
@asterisk Congratulations on your trusting yourself enough to be true to yourself! That's a tremendous act of self-love. This makes my heart swell. 💗  
@asterisk eye, welcome to the non-binary club! congrats for figuring this out! :)

@asterisk Goodness gracious you are stunning. What a smile!

So very happy for you. Love, support, and solidarity