my thoughts on lemmy so far

https://lemmy.ml/post/1129206

my thoughts on lemmy so far - Lemmy

Just joined, and well, I’m thinking ill stay. Ive been looking for a good reddit alternative for a while now. devs, you’ve done quite some good work here.

Thanks, glad you're enjoying it so far!
I agree! I’m actually kind of into the lower user count. I don’t really want an experience so intuitive that everyone with a Facebook account can join. I liked Reddit when it was a little less mainstream. It feels more like the old days over here!
It’s still very small, but I’ve had more interesting conversations here in a day and a half than I have on Reddit for months.
It helps when everyone isn't just hate reading comments, and want to engage in discussion rather than hoping on the toxic hate trains. I really like that one of the moderation goals here is to have a healthy discussion space. I feel like most subreddits have lost that over the years. I don't even want to comment most of the time on Reddit, especially to correct someone saying blatantly false shit, just because I know it will be a hail of downvotes and I'll thought out responses.

It really feels like people here are actually engaging in more natural conversation, as opposed to reddit where it's often a) venting, b) preaching to the choir to nobody's benefit and creating an echo chamber, c) arguing really vehemently about whether person A should like X video game/book/whatever or not, d) pointing at xyz things you hate and talking about how you hate it with other people who hate it, and such. Commenting on reddit often felt like screaming into a void, and the void ignores you. Or it stares back and now you have 332 downvotes and a reddit cares message for liking an unpopular book or saying black lives matter or whatever.

I don't quite trust Lemmy yet. I'm afraid it might just be the shiny new thing effect. But I'm hopeful.

I don't think we have bots here either.
I think 50% of reddit comments are bots lol. It feels like a time loop sometimes seeing the same posts, memes, jokes, etc all the time. It doesn't feel very authentic

Same, I exclusively used Reddit as an app. I now downloaded, and am using the Jerboa client and it works great so far. Had to figure out how to add an account but once working and in list mode its like I never left Reddit lol.

Much love to the devs and folks hosting servers.

I'm liking the look of it so far.

One thing I miss is that I have reddit configured to hide any posts that I've voted on, in order to keep my feed fresh (using the Save button if I want to check a post again later). I'd love to see similar functionality here as well.

Yeah I'm using the Android app, it have a lot of functionnality but also miss some of them
I just switched too, this is actually my first comment. Idk why everyone on reddit said lemme was too confusing
Every single time you offer an alternative to people, if it's not a perfect clone they complain that it's too confusing. What they're really saying is they didn't want to have to learn a single new thing at all.
I dont mind those people not joining.

I do. Many times, it can be from a failure in UX or bad choice of on-boarding steps by the referrer. Those people aren't less valuable just because they didn't overcome a circumstantial hurdle.

Personally, I'm taking steps to lower that hurdle. I refuse to link anyone to the Join Lemmy page. That's a bad on-boarding practice, and we had Mastodon to prove it. I'm linking everyone directly to Lemmy.ml, which can be explored without committing, and telling them to consider explore the fediverse "later" if they like the way this vanilla instance works. Let's first show that the content and feature set is perfectly capable and there's nothing to dislike.

Lemmy - A decentralised discussion platform for communities

Lemmy

Its really better to link to joinlemmy so that people get distributed across different instances. We dont want everyone to be on the same instance, that would cause many problems.

Yes, but that's the thing, that's a culture, philosophy and safeguard concern. We want the ecosystem to be distributed because of many reasons we can go copy paste off of a fediverse explanation page or video.

But in these times, when people are looking for social media replacements, they do not share those concerns. Not initially at least. I see it like a hierarchy of needs but for social media consumption. We risk tiring people out at the understanding and culture step, and coming off to them as evangelists when all they're looking for in that moment is for ease of access to content and discussion. We can have our cake and eat it too by showing them that, yes, this platform can fit their needs, and also hint that it has these interoperability, customization, privacy and so on advantages that they can easily find about.

Look, I'm just saying, Mastodon has a bad rep. I met plenty of people who treat the whole Twitter migration thing as "those dumb evangelists with their stupid platform that doesn't even have a function tag search ahah". I'm not letting that happen again, at least not from my hand. I'm going to sell from the bottom of their pyramid .

Maslow's hierarchy of needs - Wikipedia

This is better in an ideal world, but not practical right now. Let at lease one lemmy instance reach critical mass and become popular, then people will be more interested and learn about federation, and then people will start to branch out to other instances as they learn about what the differences are.

People need a smooth transition. That's the most important right now.

If you wanted to maintain distribution while also lowering onboarding friction, couldn't you round robin 301 redirects to the signup pages on the instances listed on the joinlemmy page or something? I guess with each instance being moderated differently, having different rules, and having a different culture/focus that might not fly, idk.
I think the very tiny barrier of entry to the fediverse helps keep it feeling mature. It's not flooded with teenagers who got their first phone like Reddit is
I mean, trying to subscribe to a community that wasn't on my instance took my much longer than I would have liked. Most people are used to have their onboarding very streamlined so I get that it's a bit jarring
From what I understand, beehaw has been struggling a little with their user count more or less tripling overnight. I think we're going to have to expect some growing pains like when Mastodon was overrun a few months back.
Yeah, I was hoping the communities were more tightly federated. That is, the community name was simply the community name on all servers rather than having local vs All.
But what if the mods on a community go rogue? If the politics community in one instance goes to shit because of a corrupt mod, you can join one from another instance rather than have no option.

You'd end up with having to go to a different community regardless. It would just mean using a new community name rather than the server+community federated name.

Currently if something like /c/technology goes rogue, you'd end up either joining c/[email protected] or someone creates /c/tech.. or both. In tighter federation, /c/technology is toast so you move to /c/tech or something like that instead but there's no option for a /c/technology@some-other-server. In some ways more limiting but it ends up easier for the end user.

I'm still not sure how to do it, to be honest. But at least commenting is easy!
Aside from the whole Fediverse concept (which as a current Matrix and Mastodon user I didn't have to relearn), the most confusing concept for new users I'd say would be that there can exist the same community on multiple servers (like, say, politics). But when you realize what this service is really doing, there's not really another way to do it and maintain moderation control on each server. It's actually a strength IMHO. I'm really impressed with what I'm seeing. More people coming onboard is going to make this place really fun. And if it ever becomes not fun, there'll probably be another server that would be more your idea of fun.
Yeah, ive just been subbing to all of the ones for topics I like with the idea to whittle them down later once I see which ones are the best match. If anyone has a recommendation list that would be a great post
Yeah I'm seeing a lot of communities(?) Being created not even 15hrs ago that I'm subscribing to. It's too early to tell which ones will work out or be properly moderated, but it's important to be active in the communities to determine the culture moving forward. Be the change you want to see!

Flashbacks to the first 5 minutes using reddit as an former digg user...

It's fine. If people want to switch they will do so.

What separates the smart from the stupid is not the ability to adapt to something new, it's the ability to overcome obstacles they may encounter when trying the new thing.

Oh I'm def. getting deja vu from the digg meltdown lol. I remember being hesitant to jump ship over to reddit but i did and never looked back. So sad to see reddit also go down that path but it's been trending that way for a while now.

Welcome, glad to have you!

Yeah I'm not sure why people think this is so intimidating. Click signup, get signed up, then start commenting / posting / creating communities. No one has to understand the term fediverse to do any of that.

Honestly if the current sign up process is too hard for some people, maybe it's a good user filter to have lol.

Click signup. Research servers to try to find one that looks good, wonder if you can sign up for multiple, or change account to other server, or what all the implications of having tons of servers even are, encounter choice paralysis. Quit and go somewhere that hides the federation.

Part of email's success is that for most people the federation has been hidden. You got your email through your university or employer (pre eternal September), then through your ISP (post eternal September), then later through gmail. There's no apparent meaningful choice to setting it up, you just use the default. The choice in the fediverse is just as meaningless, but it's a huge focus of the process for no good reason.

I think it just needs time to develop. Devs need to realize that most people aren't interested or don't have time to think or care about what federation is. Stop trying to teach people and just give users a one-click way to immediately start scrolling and browsing posts.
@exterstellar @Eufalconimorph this is exactly the same conundrum with Mastodon, all the technical mumbo jumbo confuses users, simpler words and a quick start experience is everything to really gain traction and maintain engagement during the few first days and obviously over time.... Federation, Activity pub, instances should be Directory, plain and simple
Yeah the layout is pretty similar to that of old reddit, with some new reddit functions. Maybe there just isn't a whole lot of people using old reddit anymore that they aren't used to the layout? Perhaps bringing in an optional "card" layout like most 3rd party apps have could help.

Most of it seems to revolve around the federation being rather loose. You have to pick a server to join first and your ID exists there. Probably easy enough as most are either joining lemmy.ml or beehaw.org, at least from what I'm seeing of new users.

The second problem is in some community confusion and local vs All. Communities are per server then propagated out. That is, you can have /c/hockey on lemmy.ml and a separate /c/hockey on beehaw.org. You then have to select the specific community you want to join, meaning some will see it as /c/hockey and others will see it via the federation name. The federation isn't simply hidden and behind the scenes more like IRC or usenet.

I’m on kbin and really liking it. I feel right at home and I actually love that I can see Mastodon content in a threaded, Reddit-like format. It’s great to be able to see Lemmy content too - it feels like there’s enough activity here with all that that I want to stick around and participate in the community.
At the end of the day, everyone on lemmy is or was at some point a reddit user. The platform changed but the community is still the same. So enjoy!
Any reason I can't find Remmel in the iPhone App Store?

I’m brand new to Lemmy, having trouble getting around on iOS. I checked out the GitHub for Remmel, in one of the open issues a dev mentioned they’re trying to get the app up and running again for the new Lemmy version a few months from now.

In the meantime, how have you been getting around the Fediverse on iOS, if you don’t mind me asking?

I'm a dirty Android user. But remember that Lemmy is ActivityPub.

If you have a Mastodon account (like the one I'm using right now to send you this!), you can follow Lemmy communities. I just put the link to the community in the Mastodon search bar and a "profile" showed up for me to follow. Then I followed it and posts from users show up in my Mastodon client.

It's not perfect - the Android Lemmy app actually does a better job, generally. But it's honestly a reasonable workflow and it makes my Mastodon feed more interesting too.

Ah okay, sweet, thanks for the advice! I'll check out a Mastadon app for iOS while Remmel is down.
There is also a new Lemmy client for iOS called Mlem - it's still under heavy development as far as I understand (I am also on Android so I can't test it myself) but there's a TestFlight link on that page that will let you download the app!
GitHub - buresdv/Mlem: The Lemmy client

The Lemmy client. Contribute to buresdv/Mlem development by creating an account on GitHub.

GitHub
Fantastic, thanks for the link. I’ll give it a test today.
I was having the same issue. Can't remember where but someone said the app isn't actually available yet and that the dev only has it on github? I could be wrong though just passing along that info.
Definitely impressed🤘,kudos to dev 😀

My thoughts:

404: FetchError: request to http://lemmy:8536/api/v3/site

I think the server may be struggling a bit under everyone checking it out.

I've had this a few times too but it seems okay at the moment.
Funny enough just had it again between seeing this and trying to press See Context. It immediately fixed itself tho.
Welcome! I just reactivated my lemmy account, happy to see more activity here.
It's still a bit confusing to me, but I'm already starting to like it here. Especially with the Jerboa app.

reddit also was confusing 13 years ago :)

I opened an account on lemmy, yesterday, and it looks nice, very promising. If we were 10 of thousands it would be even more great. I also installed Jerboa on my cellphone and it's good beginning, it does the job

reddit also was confusing 13 years ago :)

“That site which looks like a spreadsheet?? It’s so fugly!”

Digg

Thanks for being part of our beta. Stay tuned for what comes next.

Digg
I would live in a spreadsheet if I could, how can you hate that?
If you find a way to collapse/expand comment threads with Jerboa, let me know! It's the main thing I'm struggling with right now, but should be a easy fix.
same here, hopefully the dev of the app reains active
The dev is @dessalines, who is also a dev for the lemmy project so the odds are pretty favorable he'll stay active.
@dessalines - Lemmy