Someone’s gender is none of your business unless 1) you want to have sex with them, or 2) you want to ask them to lend you a tampon. #transgenderrights
@wendynather "Lend" implies a return when finished with it. I'm supportive, but not to that extent.
@spaf But vampires, Spaf

@wendynather Ah, good point.

I don't think I will start a riff on garlic at this point.