Julian
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If you're out in public and you see someone whose gender you can't figure out, follow these simple steps:
1. Don't fuckin worry about it
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one non-non-blonde@LadyDragonfly just funny to me because we canβt figure out anyoneβs gender by looking tbh
MikeDunnAuthor
The Hobnobbin' Gobblin@LadyDragonfly wait... I'm not supposed to get irrationally angry and belligerent? Rant to other people about how I know their gender expression better than them? Seethe at the mere thought that someone lies outside of my neat little rigid arbitrary boundaries I have clutched to because of some insecurity I have?
I think I can do that π
Meow.tar.gz 
@LadyDragonfly Exactly! Why does it really and truly matter anyways?
Cadey Bunny@LadyDragonfly My strategy is to Just Say They, and let them correct me if necessary!
Sapalotters@LadyDragonfly love this step by step instruction, it is very easy to follow and works right away. 10/10
Don Melton@LadyDragonfly This. π―
run_atalanta -> beige.party@LadyDragonfly But this made me think: what (non-name) pro/noun is the most gender-neutral if someone walking in front of you drops something and you want to get their attention. (added context: the observing person behind cannot move fast to catch-up).
I'd like to think I could quickly formulate something like "hey you with the shoulder bag and blue sneakers - you dropped your folder!" - but I know I'd probably just blurt out a gendered pronoun based on their appearance.
@run_atalanta "excuse me you dropped this"
Gianmarco Gargiulo
Urzl@LadyDragonfly One of the servers at a local coffee shop is either trans or wildly non-conformist and since it's not really any of my business it's just a mental thumbs up whenever I'm reminded they exist.
"What's in your pants?" is, somehow surprisingly, out of place in a "Good morning, here's your coffee" "Thank you, I'm off to work now!" interaction.
0ddj0bb@LadyDragonfly but how in the world will i know how to marginalize them?
Extinction (our fate)@LadyDragonfly When in doubt, they're a nun.
Nun of your biznatch.
Nun of your biznatch.
toxtethogrady@LadyDragonfly
2. Assume it's you, not them...
2. Assume it's you, not them...
LeahThe best advice ever!!
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