Recently in fun #genealogy mysteries, I'm researching my wife's GGM Rose, b. 1901 in a small US town. She had a brother Frank, b. ~1894 in Italy. He's with them on the 1900 and 1910 censuses, but then he disappears. He's included in obits for his mother (d. 1944) and brother (d. 1947). We haven't found his birth record yet.

The mystery? We recently got their mom's will (1933). She names all her children, some to mention they already got theirs so they get $1. She doesn't mention Frank AT ALL.

We ordered the will hoping it might clear up other mysteries around the parents. We haven't found any immigration records for them or even a marriage record. We haven't found birth records for Frank or his dad. We think we know what Italian town dad is from, and he has siblings born there, but no record for him. No marriage banns in mom's town. Just nothing. Oh, and when dad died in 1927 here in the US, his obit also named Frank.

So yeah, safe to say mom's will did NOT resolve any mysteries.

@epilanthanomai

Did you look through the Antenati records? Sometimes the birth name is a little different - or 2 names are given but then the person goes by the 2nd name OR the child was born in a nearby town. I've done a lot of research using these records and may be able to help or give you tips.

@girasoli I've searched, but I'm certainly happy to have another pair of eyes, thanks!

The short version is that Luigi Gigliotti was probably born around 1854-59 in or around Caraffa di Catanzaro. His birth year varies from doc to doc, and the location is pieced together from family members.

Antenati has births for Caraffa di Catanzaro from 1809-1865. 1866-1910 are on familysearch.

@girasoli There's an Antonio Gigliotti and Angela Pucci having kids there around that time, and there's a fair bit of circumstantial evidence linking him to them. Happy to go into that if it helps. He _might_ be Lucciano (Caraffa 1860 atto #30), but the year is a bit late, and the name feels like a big stretch without clear evidence to back it up.

@girasoli There's a Luigi Gigliotti born in Caraffa in 1875 (atto #1) who seems way too young. The atto says his mother is the widow of another Luigi, so I guess it's conceivable that there's funny business going on there with dad.

I haven't found a lot of the neighboring comuni on either antenati or familysearch. Awkwardly if he's descended from Antonio Gigliotti and Angela Pucci then their other kids' atti di nascita name them as Don and Donna, so they might have just had money to travel.

@girasoli Or our Luigi could just be unrelated to them and made up hard-to-verify stories to impress his kids ;-)

@epilanthanomai

*1st, is Caraffa di Catanzaro in the Calabria region?
*I'm a little confused. Was the name you were looking for Frank but the records you did find were for a Luigi?
*Do you know the parents of this Frank/Luigi or is that part of the mystery?
Sorry... just trying to figure out from the info you posted.

@girasoli Oh gosh, sorry for the confusion! I did jump around there!

Yes, Caraffa di Catanzaro is in the province of Catanzaro, in Calabria.

Luigi is Frank's father. I haven't found birth records for either of them. Luigi is my wife's direct ancestor; Frank is a great granduncle.

Frank was probably born around 1894.

@epilanthanomai

I just found this naturalization record on Ancestry for a
Frank Gigliotti
Birth Date
19 Nov 1894
Birthplace: Serrastretta ... looking that place up - it's in the province of Catanzaro ... Did Frank live in PA?

@girasoli So, our Frank's family is in Easton, PA, om the far east side of the state. https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/7602/images/4115151_00668?pId=52561986

IIRC the Frank from Serrastretta shows up in Pittsburgh, the entire opposite side of the state, practically a different world. I wasn't able to find Serrastretta's nati online (to hopefully verify the connection), but maybe I missed them. Of course it's possible the Frank from Easton could move to Pittsburgh, but I feel like there were other things that made him not a great fit.

@epilanthanomai

Ok... so to get this straight, you are looking for info on a Frank (Francesco or maybe Francesantonio) Gigliotti ... maybe shortened his name in the US. He lived where in PA?
He was the brother of Rose.
You don't know anything further for him as far as who he married/if he married?

@epilanthanomai

Sorry, reading your latest message again - he lived in Easton, PA? Just looked at a map (I only know some areas of PA). I see... it's pretty far BUT if he had a falling out and disappeared from the family/not in the will, maybe this is him?

@epilanthanomai

I don't have access to Italian Family Search records (locked for me) so I can't do a search since the Antenati records don't go that far for that area.
Has your wife done a DNA test? That might find relatives to confirm??

@girasoli We haven't done any DNA tests. We're sorta avoiding them for now.

@epilanthanomai

I get it. I avoided DNA testing for a while BUT I have to say, I have broken down a few huge brick walls with DNA testing. You can make your tree private and don't use the real name for the test person's name. I just use initials. Also for my ancestry account. I even changed my trees to just "maternal tree" and "paternal tree".

@epilanthanomai

I probably went off on a wild goose chase. Looking at that tree and the city directory records - my guess - he changed his name to either Gillot or Chillot. Without knowing any other family info - at least a wife's name, it's hard to pin him down.

@epilanthanomai

Going back to your original post - I just looked at his mother's obit. So he was still alive in 1944. My guess, if he was living in Italy, that might have been noted (but not necessarily).
*In his father's 1927 obit - says all children of Easton (including Frank) and the obit does mention a brother/sister living in Italy.
Also from the 1910 census - he was a laboror at a saloon and not naturalized.

@girasoli Oh, hey, I actually missed that Frank was working in a Saloon in 1910. Neat! Easton has a _big_ history with saloons, and Frank's sister Rose ended up owning one with her husband after Prohibition.

Definitely not during Prohibition. That would be illegal *cough* *cough*

Anyway, Frank was also 15 in the 1910 census, so no surprise he hadn't naturalized. His parents never did.

@epilanthanomai

I discovered in the 1950 census that my grandfather was a manager of a pool hall! Shocked! It didn't last long as we never heard of that occupation.

@epilanthanomai

Trying to get more info for him.. his occupation was hosiery worker in 1916 - from the city directory.

@epilanthanomai

My guess with all we know ... he didn't have a complete falling out or he would have also been ignored in the obits. I don't know what to say about the will but maybe he didn't need the $1.
Latest we know he was alive was 1947 - sill living in Easton. Is there a good genealogical center or group in that town? Maybe they can help track him down.

@girasoli There's definitely a county genealogical society. My current plan is to finish getting all my Chillot/Gigliotti records really properly sorted out and then reaching out to them. Though tbh I don't have enough genealogy experience to say if that's regular due diligence or if it's just me procrastinating.

@epilanthanomai

You never know. You might contact the perfect person to give you some help.
Well... I tried. Good luck!

@girasoli Thank you for looking! If you ever get the urge to dig into his father's birth record or parents' marriage record--both of which I'm still missing--then I'd be happy to bounce ideas around for that too!

@epilanthanomai

Unfortunately I don't have access to the Family Search records and you said the Antenati records go up to 1865. The marriage record is what I would want to find first because in Italy they almost always list the names of the parents so that's how you can then for sure find the correct birth record and trace further back. One other thought is a passenger record - since Frank would have come with his mother - his father may have come in advance or traveled with wife/child.

@girasoli The 1900 census says Lewis and Mary were married 5 years prior.

Curiously their church in Easton has a _church_ marriage record for them from 1907, implying any earlier marriage was civil only. The 1907 record has a margin note about some kind of license from 1895, which lines up with their claim on the 1900 census that they'd been married for 5 years.

I still haven't found any 1895 marriage record for them in Italy or the US, though.

@girasoli As for passenger records, the censys records for Frank and his mother Mary (Maria Veltri) say they came in 1894, but I haven't been able to find them yet. Lewis/Luigi's say either 1894 or 1886, depending on which one you look at. 1886 is early enough that the passenger lists don't have much info, so with other Luigi Gigliottis definitely in the country I'm hesitant to pin any of them firmly on our guy ;-)

@epilanthanomai

I've also found passenger records I have not been able to find anywhere else on My Heritage. They have a great collection.

@girasoli I don't currently pay for myheritage. Do they have a pay for a single month sort of plan these days, or would I have to go a whole year?

@epilanthanomai

I get access for free from my library. You probably can sign up for a free 7 day trial and then just make sure to cancel.

@girasoli Ooh, I'll have to check that out!

@epilanthanomai

Not finding any marriage info ... maybe another town?

@girasoli I mean, it'd have to be, right? Only 7902 comuni left to check! :-D