don't wait for your kid to come out

tell them right now: i support and love you no matter your gender or sexuality

the bills in some states mandating teachers inform parents if their child is doing any kind of gender exploration does more than put kids whose parents will be violent at risk

it means any kids who are unsure how their parent will react cannot safely do any sort of gender exploration then come out to their parents when they feel ready

so right now. tell your kid. don't give them any room for doubt.

@deilann @DimestoreDiamond I took every opportunity I saw with my daughters to make sure they knew that anything LGBTQ was perfectly normal. My (ex-)wife even once commented that she thought I must “want them to be gay”. It wasn’t even specifically for if they came out…I just wanted them to be good people. (Joke’s on her, *I’m* the one who came out :)

@nazgul

it takes every opportunity to even slightly push through the haze of cisheteronormativity we're all meandering in

@DimestoreDiamond