I realized what makes Mastodon, and Bluesky, and Post, and Notes seem so odd. It’s the complete absence of the “if you won’t pretend this shit sandwich is sirloin it shows how biased you are/how much Trump broke you/what an echo chamber you’re in.”

“Lol, look at you showing your extremism by not liking our culture of Nazi flags at drag shows and people shooting children who ring the doorbell. Woke much, loser?”

Fuck that.

Never consent to pretend that shitbirds are decent people. You don’t have to spend your time throwing elbows at them, but don’t allow yourself to be bad-faithed into thinking that democracy or civility require you to treat shitty morons like they’re normal and acceptable.
Also: you know the cartoon where the dude turns into a Nazi because people called him a Nazi? Don’t be like that. Some people who hate the bad-faith shitbirds will also hate you. Every movement has assholes, narcissist, and dramatics. Deal with it and focus not not being a bad-faith shitbird.
@Popehat it's wild to me to see this happen time and time again. I'd like to think I'm not built that way, but I wonder if it's a basic human vulnerability.
Cartoon: You made me become a Nazi!

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@Popehat I always thought the point of that cartoon is that the person was always a Nazi ... He was just complaining about being forced to admit it.

If someone pointing out how terrible your views are causes you to double down...maybe that's on you

@Popehat that last bit absolutely belongs on a shirt. And hey cuz it's not twitter this comment won't automatically trigger an army of bots making tshirts in a weird race to the bottom.
@Popehat Tell that to the media, who don't want to learn that the purpose of some public people (including some elected people) is to be horrible shitbirds.
@Popehat All the people who keep insisting that I’m intolerant of their “political ideology” can straight up suck on my left testicle. It’s high time we stop letting those asshats equate being a horrible human being with who we vote for at the polls.
@deriamis @Popehat That's when you tell them they're being "Constitutionally Intolerant".
@deriamis @Popehat if hating nazis makes me intolerant, I can deal with that. I know all I want or need to know about them.
@Popehat Kicks are so much more effective.
@Popehat Gee wish you had some influence with the beltway media...they are literally Overtonwindowing this country to its death, either in order to appear to reasonable to the fascists or because of $$$? Can't quite figure it...
@Popehat Agree. I feel that what Mastodon and the greater Fediverse show best of all, beyond decentralised structure, non-corporate ownership etc., is how much better social media becomes for the vast majority of people once it rejects libertarian techbro "freeze peach" platforming of minority extremist views that otherwise end up dominating everything.
@Popehat @DataDrivenMD Exactly this. Thanks for reminding us.

@Popehat I think people are just doing the things they always did and they're just shocked it no longer works. I think there's a very strong tendency, especially in the older generation, of something that I'd call "asshole plausible deniability". As in: "Sorry, but Mr. Smith is a respectable member of our city council and things between him and his wife are family matters that we do not concern ourselves with.". In other words - as long as you're "someone", you get to abuse your relations of power and get away with it - as long as you can spin a story that can pass a superficial test of credibility.

But now, for various reasons, that doesn't seem to work as well. People have started understanding that oppressive power structures exist and that enabling people who abuse those structures doesn't really make the world better. However, those who grew up within these structures and abused them aren't exactly going to give up and call themselves the bad guys publicly - so they're engaging more and more into something I call "vice conservatism" aka "I have a right to be an asshole and not be called out about it".

@Popehat This is pretty much exactly why the majority of my tweets to lying politicians and demagogues are considered "uncivil".

@Popehat One of the things I like here is the complete absence of “virtue signaling” as a pejorative, mockery of socially-redeeming behaviors (like wearing masks during a pandemic, showing support for a nation actively undergoing genocide, etc), and the complete rejection of earnest decency as something to aspire to.

This place isn’t perfect by any means, but I want to exist in a world where being kind and decent isn’t seen as weakness.

@Popehat I’ve only run across a handful of shitbirds in my time here, and they didn’t seem to last long.
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I find people accusing me of being a simp for whatever I'm simping for this week are not exactly absent on Mastodon, but at least the incoherent scoldings about not suppporting what turns out some anarchist equivalent of Time Cube, for which I am methodically and, in some cases, alphabetically, accused of every item on Wikipedia'a list of rhetorical fallacies, are rare enough that they count almost as a fun little adventure, instead of only the second-worst part of my daily routine.
@Popehat the other day someone was complaining about a podcast I listen to saying that he doesn’t want only people he agrees with and wants more people from the right. Giving air time to nazis, homophobes and xenophobes isn’t centrism it’s false equivalence. I understand wanting a deeper understanding of issues with people who understand what makes the nazis tick but inviting Nazis? Hello no.
@imbou There are people who think that anyone on the right is a Nazi, homophobe, xenophobe. You don’t have to listen to those people. You can find rational people who disagree with you without diving into the sewer.
@Popehat @imbou If you want voices from the right, read George Will. Read David Brooks. Read “Reflections on the Revolution in France.” Don’t engage with resentful, xenophobic, racist, paranoid, ethno-nationalist, conspiracy-mongers. The latter won’t effectively challenge your beliefs—just your sanity.
@SweynForkbeard @Popehat the problem is that George Will isn’t the right anymore. He is way left of the current right, I have no problem engaging him but he isn’t representative of what is driving the GOO right now, he is now an anomaly. My definition of the far right doesn’t and never included those people. Hell for many on the far left they consider me far right because I am slightly right of center on business issues. I don’t paint everyone with such broad brushes.

@Popehat @imbou If you want to understand smallpox, infecting yourself with smallpox might give you some personal insight, but isn't going to give you as much understanding as simply reading the vast literature of writing by people who study smallpox. Same applies to fascism.

You shouldn't invite Nazis onto your podcast for the same reason you shouldn't expose your audience to smallpox. Not all learning needs to be experiential.

@Popehat @imbou the problem is the "rational people" aren't the ones driving the bus, the sewer people are.
@MikeyTsi @Popehat Kevin McCarthy’s speakership exist based on Marjorie Taylor Greene, Boebert and Gaetz’s permission. They are driving the bus and have taken everything to the extreme.
@Popehat the rational conservatives are now the RINo’s they aren’t the ones driving the agenda. Those people have been marginalized. I am not doing the exaggeration of calling say a Mitt Romney or a John McCain that. I am talking the guys whose leader is Alex Jones and Tucker Carlson.
@imbou @Popehat What would you call them then? I wouldn't say Romney is on the left.
@dagnymol @Popehat just a conservative? Is that still a thing? There are so few that aren’t beholden to the anti work, anti science anti everything now.
@imbou @Popehat Did we learn *nothing* from Geraldo?
@imbou @Popehat Fox news, Newsmax provide enormous mainstream platforms and the direct Nazi web content provide the rest. There is no need to look further. There is absolutely no need to have the bastards "debate their marketplace of (defective) ideas" anyplace else. I have suspicions about the motives of anyone who thinks otherwise.
@imbou @Popehat They say a tolerant society must tolerate everything except intolerance.
@imbou @Popehat if he wants to listen to a podcast with a far right media personality, he can listen to Knowledge Fight. He’ll get to hear what Alex Jones says, and it’s put in context by people who have spent an ungodly amount of time dissecting Jones’s style and substance for years.
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Bias in action.
@refract @Popehat yes I am biased against intolerance. I will wear that on a shirt no problem.

@Popehat I had to file away all the meme pics I kept at the ready for my daily wander through Twitter. I haven't used any of them in over a month. Except maybe right now to remind myself what Twitter turned into and how I don't miss it.

I do think that Substack needs to find a way to not turn into a Nazi Bar. Given how the CEO wasn't interested in that, I hope some other platform steps up to take over what Substack does as it's days are numbered.

@Popehat That's part of it for sure, but the absence of advertisers, forced feed, and generalized corporate, top-down organization leaves a lot of people in a quandary. Being responsible for yourself in a dizzying, uncurated, entropy of interest, information, and opinion is jarring for a lot of people -- especially after the other. People who saw the WWW come alive (and who were around for the even earlier craziness of EBBs, Usenet, WAIS, etc.) have some sense of how to play when you own and cultivate your own sources. The other people either have to love the cold water immersion or so hate the house that corporate built they will take the time to build their own.
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Ken, without the "You won't give bandwidth to assholes; so much for free speech, Cuck," how do you know you're alive?