The thing about being a trans woman is that growing up, all the boys around me knew I wasn't one of them.
Nobody ever called me a man until they realized they could hurt a woman by doing so.
The thing about being a trans woman is that growing up, all the boys around me knew I wasn't one of them.
Nobody ever called me a man until they realized they could hurt a woman by doing so.
@MzAprilDaniels This, so much.
So many comments from guys growing up about, well, the kinds of nasty things guys make comments about, where the guys were putting me in the female role in their descriptions/acts.
So many guys who would come to me for relationship advice because I was friends with the girls they were dating, and 'got' things they struggled to.
Now, I wonder how many of those guys would tell me I had no right to be myself... and I really don't want to know the answer to that.
@MzAprilDaniels I was bullied at school and at home for my entire childhood.
The most common term of abuse was simply "girl".