@shonalika This is very true. I have a bald white head and wear my beard in 2 braids, and I wear mostly coveralls in the winter, a look I find comfortable and sort of cuddly. But the other day this man scopes me out several times, and then he comes right up and growls, “Are you a skinhead?” (meaning clearly the neonazi kind) and I’m like OH NO THE OPPOSITE OF THAT. But the guy had no way of knowing just from looking at me