A work team colleague whom I really liked and respected died recently and her memorial is coming up. A ton of people from work are going, but I can’t decide - it’s in an Evangelical church and being a big ol ‘mo it makes me really uncomfortable. Would you go?
@jayharcourt Mourn or pay respect in whatever way feels appropriate to you. Including not at all. Anyone judging you over this beneath contempt. (trying to follow this advice right this minute.)