The meeting with the therapist went way better than I anticipated. I had prepared not to discuss the #NonBinary topic at all but wanted to hear what he had to say. He admitted his knee-jerk reaction and that he didn't acknowledge my feelings last time. He did have a personal reason for this, which I won't go into here.

At one point he said "I should've remembered you're an intelligent person who will think these things thoroughly." I didn't give the letter I wrote him but was able to discuss the topics in there, including confronting him and calling his approach transphobic. Urgh, I hate confrontations...

Nevertheless, the next time will be the very last time but I'm happy things turned this way.