That... makes a lot of sense, actually.
I've never felt he/him was wrong for me, as such, but only because I discarded an enormous amount of garbage attached to it.
But others haven't. And 3rd person pronouns are explicitly about how others refer to me and what they hear.
Huh
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RT @erikaheidewald
i kinda knew this already but it just fully hit me that the reason i never cared enough about my pronouns to change them is bc i’m au…
https://twitter.com/erikaheidewald/status/1626382806044626947
Erika Hersteria on Twitter
“i kinda knew this already but it just fully hit me that the reason i never cared enough about my pronouns to change them is bc i’m autistic & had no idea that people thought using she/her MEANT something about me. if i knew that i probably would have changed them decades ago”